Uma usebenza namakhasimende, ulindele ukuthi uzobhekana ne-cranky ngezikhathi ezithile.Kodwa kulo nyaka ukhiqize izinto eziningi ezimbi - futhi kungenzeka ubhekane nokuhlanya okukhulu kunangaphambili.

Ngakho-ke kubaluleke kakhulu kunangaphambili ukuzilungiselela ukusebenza namakhasimende akhungathekile, angalungile.

"Abaningi bethu kufanele benze umsebenzi owengeziwe ukuze sizihlanganise futhi balethe amandla amahle ekusebenzeni."Kusho uMcLeod."Uma ukhombisa ukuhlanganisa yonke intshiseko ongayenza, bese omunye ekhafulela ubuthi emoyeni, kungazwakala njengokubukela phansi imizamo yakho."

Uma usebenza namakhasimende angalungile (noma ozakwenu), usafuna ukulungisa izinkinga zabo kuqala nokubaluleke kakhulu.Kodwa futhi ungathatha izinyathelo ezimbalwa ukusiza ukuguqula isimo esingesihle sibe esihle.

Zama lawa maqhinga amane avela kuMcLeod:

1. Ungavumi (noma uphikise)

Akudingeki uvume ngekhanda noma unikeze izimpawu zomlomo njengokuthi “uh-ha” uvumelane njengoba zikhuluma ngokuthi into embi kangakanani.Futhi awufuni ukungavumelani, ngoba lokho kungase kuguquke.

Kunalokho, gxila kancane endabeni onayo kanye nesixazululo ongayinikeza.Qinisekisa amakhasimende aphikisayo ngamagama akhuthazayo njengokuthi, “Singakunakekela lokhu,” “Ulethe lokhu kumuntu ofanele,” noma “Ngiyazi esingakwenza ukuze sinakekele lokhu ngokushesha.”

2. Zijwayeze uzwela

Ngisho noma ugwema ukuvuma noma ukungavumelani, uzofuna ukubonisa ukuzwelana nabantu abangalungile.Isizathu esikhulu ukuthi awukwazi nje ukuzazi izinkinga abangase babe nazo.Kungase kube yilutho noma kungaba izinkinga zezimali, izinkinga zokunakekela noma izinkinga zempilo.Indaba ephikisayo abantu abanayo ingase ibe incane kuwe, kodwa kungaba utshani obubaqhekezela umhlane wekamela.

Ngakho bonisa uzwela ngamazwi anjengokuthi, “Lokho kungase kukukhungathekise,” “Ngiyaxolisa ngokuthi kuye kwadingeka ubhekane nalokhu” noma “Ngicabanga ukuthi abantu abaningi bangazizwa ngaleyo ndlela.”Khona-ke uzofuna ukudlulela kuzixazululo ukuze ugweme ukuphuma okuningi okungalungile.

3. Qondisa kabusha amandla

Into eyodwa ofuna ukuyigwema lapho usebenza nabantu abangalungile ukuvumela ukungabi nandaba kwabo kuthinte isimo sakho sengqondo - ikakhulukazi ngenxa yamanye amakhasimende ozowasiza kanye nozakwenu ozobe uthintana nabo.

Ngakho uMcLeod uphakamisa i-Aikido, umkhuba wokulwa.Umqondo uthi lapho uhlaselwa awuhlehli uqonde emuva.Kunalokho, uqondisa amandla ombangi kwenye indawo.

Emsebenzini, ungaqondisa kabusha ukungabi nandaba ngokuqondisa amakhasimende ezisetshenziswa noma izenzo eziwanikeza amandla.Isibonelo, lungisa inkinga bese wabelana ngesisetshenziswa esifana newebhusayithi, iphepha elimhlophe noma ishidi lethiphu elizobasiza bagweme inkinga noma bathuthukise isici esithile somsebenzi noma impilo.

4. Hlela kabusha ingqondo yakho

Kuzobaluleka ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi awuvumeli ukungabibikho okuningi kuthinte umbono wakho.UMcLeod uphakamisa ukuthi wenze iphuzu "ukuzungeza abantu abakukhulisayo, ababona isiliva, futhi bakugcine ugxile kulokho okubalulekile."

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Futhi ekupheleni kosuku lomsebenzi, zihlukanise nakho.Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usebenza ehhovisi noma usekhaya, hamba ngokomzimba usuke emsebenzini kanye nesipiliyoni esibi futhi ukuyeke ngokwengqondo kudlule.

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