Nakuba kubalulekile ukuqhubeka nokubonisa, futhi unikeze imibono nolwazi kwabangase babe / kumakhasimende, kukhona umugqa phakathi kokuphikelela nokuba uhlupho.Umehluko phakathi kokuphikelela nokuba yisicefe ulele kokuqukethwe ukuxhumana kwakho.

Ukuba yisicefe

Uma konke ukuxhumana kuwumzamo osobala wokuthengisa ikhasimende, ungase ube yisicefe ngokushesha.Uma konke ukuxhumana kufaka phakathi ulwazi olukhiqiza inani, uzobonakala njengomuntu ophikelelayo ngendlela enhle.

Isikhathi siyikho konke

Imfihlo yokuphikelela iwukwazi ukuthi kufanele ulinde nini ngesineke nokuthi kufanele ugadle nini.Njengoba ungazi ukuthi sinini isikhathi esifanele, ukuba khona njalo kuqinisekisa ukuthi ulapho uma sekuyisikhathi sokuteleka.

Linda izivimbamgwaqo

Kwesinye isikhathi kufanele ulinde kuze kube izivimbamgwaqo.Yiba nesineke futhi uzibambe, wazi ukuthi izinto zizovuna wena.Uma bekwenza, uzobe ulapho, ulungele ukwenza ngobudlova ukuze usebenzise leli thuba.

Thuthukisa futhi usebenzise ukuphikelela

Nazi izindlela ezintathu zokuthuthukisa nokusebenzisa ukuphikelela:

1. Hlela kabusha uhlaka.Izithiyo nezithiyo ziyingxenye yokuthengisa, futhi ayikho indlela yokuzigwema.Esikhundleni sokunamathisela incazelo engalungile kuzo, hlela kabusha izithiyo nezithiyo njengempendulo engakusiza wenze izinguquko.Ukuthengisa kufana nokuxazulula iphazili.Uma ubambeka, zama okuthile okusha, yiba namasu, futhi uphikelele uze uthole indlela esebenzayo.
2. Setha kabusha iwashi legeyimu.Ku-basketball, umdlalo uphelile lapho kukhala i-buzzer.Akukho msindo ekuthengisweni ngoba umdlalo awupheli.Uma nje unekhono lokusiza amathemba akho aveze imiphumela engcono, qhubeka uwavakashela.Ungase ucabange ukuthi ithuba elithile lokuthengisa lilahlekile, kodwa umdlalo awukapheli — usanda kuqala.Phikelela futhi uthathe izinyathelo namuhla ezizokusiza uzuze ithemba esikhathini esizayo.Ngaso sonke isikhathi uma wehluleka ukwenza ukuthengisa, hambisa izandla zewashi legeyimu emuva ekuqaleni kokudlala bese uqala kabusha.Xosha yonke imicabango yokuduma kokuphela komdlalo, ngoba umdlalo awupheli.
3. Zama okuthile okusha.Impumelelo ngokuvamile iyindaba yokuhlola — imizamo engapheli yokuthola ukhiye ovula ithuba.Cabanga ngomphumela ozama ukuwufinyelela futhi wenze uhlu lwezenzo ezingakusondeza kumgomo wakho.Ungakhathazeki ngokuthi lezi zenzo zinkulu futhi ziyashintsha noma zincane futhi zingasho lutho.Qhubeka nokusebenza lolu hlu, ume isikhashana ukuze ubuyekeze imiphumela yezenzo zakho, thatha impendulo futhi wenze izinguquko.Isihluthulelo sokuphikelela ngokomsebenzi ukufinyelela iqoqo lamathuluzi, imibono namasu.Qhubeka ushaya ucingo futhi ungalokothi wehluleke ukukhulisa ubudlelwano, ngisho nalapho kungekho nkomba yokuthi uyoke ube nesithombe sangempela sokuguqula lelo themba libe yikhasimende.Ungalahli ithemba!Kuyindlela eqinisekile eya empumelelweni.

Akukapheli

Ukuphikelela kusho ukuthi uzwa ukuthi “cha” futhi uqhubeke nokuphishekela ithuba.Yenza uhlu lwamadili olahlekelwe kulezi zinyanga eziyi-12 ezidlule.Mangaki kulawa mathemba oye waqhubeka uwafuna?Uma la mathemba bekufanele ukuphishekelwa ngaleso sikhathi, kufanelekile ukuphishekelwa manje.Qala kabusha umzamo wakho wokufuna ngokushayela ukuze uhlanganyele kabusha ngalinye lalawa mathemba ngokwabelana ngombono omusha wokudala inani.Amanye alawa mathemba kungenzeka ukuthi awajabulile ukuthi akhethe lowo oqhudelana naye.Kungenzeka ukuthi balinde ukuthi ushaye ucingo.

Ithemba nokuphikelela

Ithemba lakho likwenza ukwazi ukukholisa amathemba okuthi ikusasa elingcono alitholakali nje kuphela, kodwa liqinisekile.Ivumela ukudala umbono omuhle.Awukwazi ukuba ngumuntu ongenathemba futhi ube nomthelela kumathemba.Abantu balandela abantu abakholelwa ukuthi impumelelo ayinakugwenywa.

Thatha isinyathelo

Uthonya amathemba ngokuthatha isinyathelo kuqala nangokusukumela phezulu.Izenzo zikhuluma kakhulu kunamazwi.Ukunganaki, okuphambene nokuthatha isinyathelo kuqala, kulimaza ikhono lakho lokuphikelela.Alikho ithemba - noma ikhasimende - elithonywa ukunethezeka.

Bonisa ukuziphendulela

Ungakwazi ukuphikelela kuphela uma ukhathalela amabhizinisi akho okulindelwe futhi uthathe zonke izinyathelo ezidingekayo ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi bathola imiphumela abayikhokhele - nokunye okwengeziwe.Ukuziphendulela kuyisenzo sokunakekela, futhi ukunakekela kudala ukwethembana, okuyisisekelo sethonya nokuphikelela.

Ukuphikelela kanye nomthelela

Umoya wakho wokungabekezeli - ukuzimisela kwakho nokuzimisela kwakho ukubekezela - uhlaba umxhwele amathemba namakhasimende.Ukuphikelela kwakho kwengeza ethonyeni lakho, ngoba amakhasimende ayazi ukuthi ungabalwa ukuthi uqhubeke lapho abanye abathengisi bengase balahle imizamo yabo.

Insiza: Ithathwe ku-inthanethi