Noma ubani othinta ukuzizwisa kwekhasimende angashayela ukwethembeka ngekhono elilodwa elinamandla: ukwakha ubuhlobo.

Uma ukwazi ukwakha nokugcina ubudlelwano namakhasimende, uyaqinisekisa ukuthi azobuya, athenge okwengeziwe futhi mhlawumbe akuthumelele amanye amakhasimende ngenxa yokuziphatha kwabantu okuyisisekelo.Amakhasimende:

• bafuna ukukhuluma nabantu ababathandayo
• ukwabelana ngolwazi kanye nemizwelo nabantu abathanda
• thenga kubantu ababathandayo
• bazizwe bethembekile kubantu ababathandayo, futhi
• bazofuna ukwethula abantu ababathandayo.

Nakuba kubalulekile ukwakha ubuhlobo namakhasimende amasha ukuze nje wakhe ubuhlobo, kubalulekile ngokufanayo ukugcina noma ukuthuthukisa ubuhlobo njengoba isikhathi siqhubeka.

Noma ubani ohileleke namakhasimende kukho konke ukuzizwisa kwawo ngenhlangano yakho angaphumelela ekwakhiweni kobudlelwano.

1. Bonisa uzwela olwengeziwe

Ufuna ukuhlakulela ikhono lokuqonda nokwabelana ngemizwa yamakhasimende - noma yini kusukela ekukhungathekeni kanye nentukuthelo kuya enjabulweni nenjabulo.Leyo mizwa eyabiwe ingase imayelana nomsebenzi, izimpilo zomuntu siqu noma ibhizinisi.

Okhiye ababili: Thola amakhasimende ukuthi akhulume ngawe futhi uwabonise ukuthi ulalele.Zama lokhu:

• Ingabe kuyiqiniso abakushoyo ngokuhlala (idolobha/isifunda samakhasimende)?Isibonelo: “Ingabe kuyiqiniso abakushoyo ngePhoenix?Ingabe ukushisa okomile ngempela?”
• Njengoba uhlala (edolobheni/esifundazweni), uya (okuheha) kakhulu?
• Nginezinkumbulo ezinhle ze (idolobha/isifunda sekhasimende).Lapho ngiseyingane, savakashela (ukuheha okwaziwayo) futhi sakuthanda.Ucabangani ngakho manje?
• Ngiyaqonda ukuthi ubusebenza (embonini/enkampanini eyahlukene).Lwalunjani uguquko?
• Uyaya (kumcimbi owaziwayo wemboni)?Kungani/kungani kungenjalo?
• Ngikubone kuTwitter ukhuluma ngokuya (umcimbi wemboni).Uke waya kuyo?Ithini imibono yakho?
• Ngikubona ulandela (influencer) ku-LinkedIn.Uyifundile incwadi yakhe?
• Njengoba unentshisekelo (isihloko);Bengizibuza ukuthi ngabe uzofunda yini (incwadi ethize ngesihloko)?
• Ngihlanganisa uhlu lwamabhulogi amahle kumakhasimende ami.Ingabe unazo izincomo?
• Isithombe sokuhoxa senkampani yakho sivele ku-Instagram.Kwakuyini okuvelele kukho?
• Ngingakutshela hlala umatasa.Ingabe usebenzisa izinhlelo zokusebenza ukuze uhlale uhlelekile?Ingabe uncoma ini?

Manje, ingxenye ebalulekile: Lalelisisa futhi uphendule, usebenzisa ulimi lwabo olufanayo, ngesithakazelo esiqhubekayo.

2. Yiba yiqiniso

Amakhasimende angakwazi ukuzwa intshisekelo ephoqelelwe nomusa.Ukuba mnandi kakhulu noma ukujabula ngokweqile ngalokho okuzwayo kuzokudedisela kude namakhasimende.

Kunalokho, yenza njengoba ubungenza nabangani ababelana ngolwazi.Qhudelana.Mamatheka.Bamba iqhaza, kunokuba ubheke inketho yakho elandelayo yokukhuluma.

3. Linganisa inkambu

Lapho ungathola khona indawo evamile, maningi amathuba okuthi uxhumeke.

Thola izintshisekelo ezifanayo nezizinda futhi ukusebenzise ukuze ujulise ukuxhumana njalo lapho uthintana namakhasimende.Mhlawumbe wabelana ngohlelo lwe-TV oyintandokazi, uthando lwezemidlalo noma intshisekelo kokuthile okuthandayo.Noma mhlawumbe unezingane ezineminyaka efanayo noma umbhali othandekayo.Qaphela lokhu kufana futhi ubuze ukuthi amakhasimende acabangani ngakho uma usebenzisana.

Esinye isihluthulelo esinamakhasimende amasha: Bukisisa ukuziphatha kwawo okuyisisekelo - izinga lokukhuluma, ukusetshenziswa kwamagama, ubuqotho noma amahlaya ephimbo.

4. Dala okuhlangenwe nakho okwabiwe

Uke uqaphele indlela abantu abahlanganyele ngayo okuhlangenwe nakho okukhungathekisayo - njengezindiza ezibambezelekile noma ukushova izindlela zabo eziseceleni phakathi kwesiphepho esineqhwa - suka kokuthi "Ngiyakuzonda lokhu!"ukuthi “Sisonke kukho!”

Yize ungafuni ukudala okuhlangenwe nakho okukhungathekisayo, uyafuna ukwakha ubambiswano lokuthi “Sikulokhu ndawonye” ngokusebenzisa ulwazi.

Uma usebenza namakhasimende ezindabeni, dala ukuzizwisa okwabiwe ngokuhlanganyela.Ungakwazi:

• chaza inkinga ngokusebenzisa amagama amakhasimende
• babuze ukuthi bangathanda yini ukuhlanganisa imibono yesixazululo esibanelisayo
• bavumele bakhethe isisombululo sokugcina kanye nezinga labo lokubandakanyeka ekusifezeni.

Insiza: Ithathwe ku-inthanethi