Nakuba kunamaqhinga ahlukahlukene esikhathi esifushane okwenza amakhasimende enze lokho okufunayo, indlela eya “ethonyeni langempela” ayinazo izinqamuleli.

Izingibe okufanele uzigweme

Ukunxusa amakhasimende ukuthi asebenzise indlela ehlukile yokucabanga ukuze abadayisele, bakhulume kakhulu kunokulalela, futhi ukuzivikela, ukuphikisana nokuba nenkani lapho ubhekene nokuphikiswa kuyizingibe okufanele zigwenywe.

Uma amakhasimende engavumelani

Uma amakhasimende engavumelani nawe, zama ukugwinya umfutho ukuze uvale izindlebe futhi uzivikele.Lalela kakhulu futhi uzishiye uvulele ithuba lokuthi bangase bakutshele into ongazange uyicabangele.Esikhundleni sokuxhumana nge-lens yalokho okufunayo, zama ukubona umbono wekhasimende.

Izithiyo zokuthonya

Ithonya akuwona umkhuba wokuthola amakhasimende ukuthi enzeniwenafuna.Ukuwina ukuthobela ngokunengeka kwamakhasimende noma ukuwacindezela ukuthi athenge okuthile kubangela ukucasuka.Amakhasimende akanandaba nemigomo noma izidingo zakho, ngakho ungazami ukuwenza anyakaze ngokuwatshela imibono yakho.

Ukusabela ngokweqile ekuphikisaneni

Uma uhlangabezana nokuphikisa, zama ukugwema ukungena kwimodi yokusabela.Kunalokho lalela, bese ubuza umbuzo.Zama ukukwenza kuvuleleke futhi kube nophenyo.

• “Ungakuchaza kakhudlwana?”
• “Uhlola nami?”
• “Yabelana nami?”

Ulwazi olulungile

Zama ukungaxazululi inkinga uze ube nolwazi olufanele.Akuwona umqondo omuhle ukuthi ucabange ukuthi uyayazi impendulo bese uyahamba uthole ulwazi olusekela ukuqagela kwakho.

Ivelu yokukhuluma

Ugibe olukhulu ukukhuluma ngemikhiqizo noma amasevisi akho ngokwemibandela yezici — yilokho umkhiqizo noma isevisi eyikho.Ngokugxila ezicini, ungase uphuthelwe amathuba okuveza inani.

Ukucaciswa kwevelu kuvela ekwazini ukuxoxa ngomkhiqizo noma ngesevisi yakho ngokombono wekhasimende kunowakho.Zama ukuvala igebe phakathi komkhiqizo noma isevisi yakhoisnokuthi empelenikwenzaokwekhasimende.

Lalela udlule endaweni yakho eyimpumputhe

Ungalokothi ucabange ukuthi unazo zonke izimpendulo.Lalela ngokukhululekile amakhasimende ngokuzimisela ukushintsha umqondo wakho.Naka amakhasimende, ubheke ukuthinta, umnyakazo, izinkulumo namathoni ukuze uthole isithombe esigcwele salokho abazama ukukuxoxela kona.Cindezela noma isiphi isifiso sokuvikela isikhundla sakho noma ukuphazamisa ukuze ufake owakho umbono.Buza imibuzo ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi uqonda ngokugcwele.Vula ithonya, futhi uzothola ithonya.

Hlangana nezinhloso zabo

Ukubona izimo ngokombono wamakhasimende kwakha ukuqaphela isimo okuzokwenza ukwazi ukunikeza imicabango nemibono ezobasiza ukuthi bahlangabezane nemigomo yabo.Leli zinga lozwela lingazuza ukwethenjwa kwabo.Kungase kukusize uthuthukise "ukuqwashisa ngesixazululo" ukuze usize amakhasimende afinyelele imigomo yawo ngoba ufunde ukuthi yini ayidingayo.

Khiqiza inani

Ukuze wakhe ubudlelwano bamakhasimende besikhathi eside, hlala ubheka okuthe xaxa onganikela ngakho ekhasimendeni.Ngemva kokuvala iseyili, cabanga isikhathi eside.Zama ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi amakhasimende akubona njengenketho yokuqala.Bheka amathuba amasha okuxhumana ukuthi kungani kuwukuhlakanipha ukuthi amakhasimende aqhubeke nokwenza ibhizinisi nawe.

Insiza: Ithathwe ku-inthanethi