Ukuthengisa kuwumdlalo wezinombolo, noma kanjalo isisho esidumile siya.Uma nje ushaya izingcingo ezanele, ube nemihlangano eyanele, futhi unikeze izethulo ezanele, uzophumelela.Okuhle kunakho konke, wonke “cha” oyizwayo kukusondeza kakhulu ku-“yebo”.Ingabe kusekukholakala lokhu?

 

Ayikho inkomba yempumelelo yokuthengisa

Iqiniso liwukuthi, inani eliphelele aliyona inkomba yempumelelo yesikhathi esizayo.Ikhorasi eqinile ethi cha ayivamisile ukuholela ekuvaleni ngempumelelo.

Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi abadlali abaphezulu benza izingcingo ezimbalwa futhi banamathuba ambalwa kunabathengisi abajwayelekile.Bagxile ekuthuthukiseni izinga lezingcingo zabo esikhundleni sokwandisa isibalo.

Nazi izindawo ezinhlanu ezibalulekile abagxile kuzo ekuthuthukiseni:

• Isilinganiso sokuxhuma.Imaphi amaphesenti ezingcingo/othintana nabo aphenduka izingxoxo zokuqala.Lapho beguqula izingcingo zibe izingxoxo, izingcingo ezimbalwa okudingeka bazenze.
• Ukuguqulwa komhlangano wokuqala.Imaphi amaphesenti emihlangano yabo yokuqala anokulandelela ngokushesha okuhleliwe?Uma le nombolo iphezulu, amathemba ambalwa abawadingayo.
• Ubude bomjikelezo wokuthengisa.Kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani ukuvala isivumelwano?Uma amadili amade esendleleni, mancane amathuba okuba wenze ibhizinisi nawo.
• Ukuvala isilinganiso.Mingaki imihlangano yabo yokuqala ephenduka amakhasimende?Uma bevala iphesenti eliphezulu lokuthengisa, bazophumelela kakhulu.
• Ukulahlekelwa ngaphandle kwezinqumo.Imaphi amaphesenti amathemba abo ahlala nesimo samanje (umnikezeli wamanje)?Ukwehlisa lesi silinganiso kuletha imali eyengeziwe.

Okubalulekile kuwe

Ungagcini nje ukulinganisa ukuthi mangaki amakholi owenzayo noma ama-imeyili owathumelayo.Hamba ujule.Buza, “Yimaphi amaphesenti oxhumana nabo abaguqukayo njengamanje?”Umbuzo olandelayo uthi: “Ngingakuthola kanjani okwengeziwe ukuze ngiguqulele izingxoxo zokuqala”?

Uma usunelisekile ngesilinganiso sakho sokuxhumeka, qhubekela phambili ekuthuthukiseni izinga lengxoxo yakho yokuqala yomhlangano.Bese udlulela ekuthuthukiseni ezinye izinkomba zokusebenza.

Imibuzo okufanele uyibuze

Zibuze le mibuzo:

• Isilinganiso sokuxhuma.Wenzani ukuze uvuse ilukuluku, usungule ukwethembeka futhi ubandakanye amathemba ezingxoxweni?
• Izingxoxo zomhlangano wokuqala.Ithini isu lakho lokuthola umuntu ozothile onentshisekelo yokwenza ushintsho?
• Ubude bomjikelezo wokuthengisa.Uwasiza kanjani amathemba ukuthi afinyelele uma ushintsho lwenza umqondo omuhle webhizinisi?
• Ukuvala isilinganiso.Ithini indlela yakho yokunciphisa ubungozi obukhona ezinhlelweni zoshintsho?
• Ukulahlekelwa ngaphandle kwezinqumo.Uzobe wenzani ukuze uzihlukanise, umnikelo wakho kanye nenkampani yakho kwabancintisana nabo okungasiza ukugwema amatafula.

Ucwaningo lubalulekile

Ngaphambi kwanoma yimuphi umhlangano wethemba, ucwaningo lubalulekile.Hlola iwebhusayithi ye-prospect ukuze uthole imininingwane mayelana nesiqondiso sebhizinisi layo, izitayela nezinselele.Cwaninga abantu ozohlangana nabo ukuze ufunde okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka ngabo.Thola umqondo omuhle wokuthi obani amathemba akho nokuthi yini ebalulekile kuwo.

Imibuzo okufanele uyibuze

Njengoba ulungiselela umhlangano, zibuze le mibuzo:

• Likuphi ithemba ngenqubo yabo yokuthenga?
• Yini oyenzile ngaphambili ukuze ufike kuleli qophelo?
• Ingabe usuhlangabezane nezikhubekiso kuze kube manje?Uma kunjalo, ziyini?
• Iyini injongo yalo mhlangano ozayo?
• Kokukhethayo, yimuphi umphumela oyimpumelelo?
• Uzobe ukhuluma nobani?Ungakwazi yini ukuzitshela kancane ngomuntu ngamunye?
• Uyiqala kanjani ingxoxo?Kungani wenze lokho kukhetha?
• Imiphi imibuzo ozoyibuza?Kungani zibalulekile?
• Ingabe ulindele noma yiziphi izithiyo?Uma kunjalo, bayoba yini?Uzozisingatha kanjani?
• Ayini amathemba amathemba?

Umphumela owufisayo

Ngokwenza ukuhlola okufundile, okusekelwe ocwaningweni kokuthi amathuba akhona emjikelezweni wokuthenga, uzokwazi inhloso yakho yomhlangano.Mhlawumbe okokulungiselela ukuhlaziya okujulile, noma ukumisa umhlangano wokulandelela noma ukuboniswa komkhiqizo.Ukwazi umgomo wakho kukusiza ukuthi uhlele ingxoxo yakho yokuqala.

Hamba uye endaweni entsha

Ukuhlela kunikeza ukuguquguquka kokuhamba ngezindlela ezintsha lapho izinkinga noma ukukhathazeka kuphakama emhlanganweni.Iphinde ikuvumela ukuthi ubuyisele ingxoxo endleleni lapho inhlanhlatha.Izinga lokuhlela kwakho linquma umphumela owufisayo.

Linganisa ukusebenza kwakho

Zibuze le mibuzo ngemva komhlangano:

• Bengilindeleni futhi kwenzekani ngempela?Uma kwenzeka ngendlela obufisa ngayo, ukuhlela kwakho bekwanele.Uma kungenjalo, kuwuphawu lokuthi uphuthelwe okuthile.
• Ngingene kuphi enkingeni?Ukuqaphela izindawo zakho ezinenkinga kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokuqinisekisa ukuthi awuphindi amaphutha afanayo.
• Yini engangingayenza ngokuhlukile?Cabangelani ezinye izinketho.Ngokuqondile, bheka izindlela othuthuke ngazo.Hlola izindlela obungasusa ngazo isithiyo ngokuphelele.
• Ngenzeni kahle?Ukunaka ukuziphatha kwakho okuhle kubalulekile.Ufuna ukwazi ukuziphinda.

 

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